- Step1
Listening
to other people is one of the first steps that will help you handle a
tough situation gracefully. Listening to what is happening and how other
people are feeling will help you gain a better understanding of the
tough situation. When you listen you will know best how to handle the
situation.
- Step2
Comforting
someone in a tough situation is part of handling it with grace. If the
tough situation is you, you can also comfort yourself. Tell the other
person that it will be okay. Give a kind hug if appropriate.
- Step3
Remain
quiet and calm in a tough situation if it is appropriate. When you
remain quiet and calm it is easier to access the nature of the
situation. Not speaking out of anger or under duress is one way to
handle a tough situation with grace. Step away from the situation if
possible, to clear your head.
- Step4
Take
action or speak up when it is appropriate to do so. It's better to wait
until you have something meaningful to say than to speak simply as a
reaction to the tough situation. Provide possible solutions or ideas to
help someone in a tough situation, if they ask.
- Step5
Add
humour or levity to a tough situation when appropriate. Handling a
tough situation with grace means helping to make a situation weigh more
lightly on people's minds and hearts, not heavier.
- Step6
Approach
others in a tough situation with an open ear and a pleasant smile. Try
not make a tough situation tougher. Whatever the tough situation is, it
can be handled, and it is not the end of the world. By keeping the
situation in perspective you can handle any tough situation with grace.
Wilbert Chaniwa
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